The recent weekend was a nightmare for me and him. The root cause of it: lack of clear communication and of course, differing perspectives.
I thought he was being cowardly. Yet, he was doing what he did as he thought that I was more interested and anxious in viewing the flats. So he loves me afterall! :)
I was upset and anxious and wanted to get the news out to them asap. This has been on my mind for a long time and I am a person who does not like to keep secrets. I want things to be out in the open (of course when appropriate) and a clear conscience.
He made the decision to view the flats because he thought I wanted to get a flat asap. And hence accommodated me despite being sick.
So both of us were irritated and upset with each other simply because we had different perspectives and had different filters in our minds. We interpreted and diagnosed the situation differently. Our diagnoses led to different actions and consequences.
But I am glad that we got things out in the open.
Come to think of it, it was really fun and stupid of me to cry and vent my frustrations going bowling and movies with my friends. But I am also very happy that my friends were there for me when I needed someone. Thank you Friends!!!!!!
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