Yesterday was a fun day. Many things took place. Yet, I have to blog this because it really struck me. Aunt Alice asked when I was going to have the customary. I was rather taken aback because I had not expected it from her. Since she already knew that I am married legally, I thought that would be it. Somehow, they were all hoping to hear the news that I would be having my customary soon. Why is it so?
Aunt Alice said that I am not getting any younger and should not wait. She also said that she was disappointed that she did not hear the news of the customary and heard the news of the ROM instead. It is funny and interesting to observe the kind of enthusiasm and disappointment in her voice.
Well, perhaps her experience was like that. They got married younger and had more children earlier.
But for me ( I cannot really speak for my generation though), customary can wait till the cows come home. I am of the belief that as along as a couple is happy together, such rituals are secondary.
Yet, what really touched me was that Aunt Alice was concerned enough to ask. She has always been the nice person I have ever known since young. I feel comfortable around her. She is patient and is a capable homemaker.
From my point of view, it is interesting to see the fascination that they have about the customary. And because the decision lies with me, I have the liberty to play along and see how they react. Heeheee......anyway, the best thing for me is not to have the customary after all. Haha......
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