Dr Phil made this statement on TV and it really struck me. Many times, we make decisions out of fear. Because we fear something, we find ways and means to avoid them. Yet, the more we avoid them, the more it seems to look for us.
Why do we have fear? We have fear because we could have had very bad experiences with the subjects concerned, or we could have heard something bad. The elements of fear are tugging at our boundaries to try to tempt us into doing things which may result in consequences which we may not be able to handle.
And most of the time, we are not rational when making decisions.....
Yet, when we dig deeper, we should welcome fear and conquer it for it is one of our teachers. Often, our actions amidst our fears help us to learn and grow stronger, if only we take the time and efforts to reflect. Something which we have stopped doing as the pace of life moves faster and faster with each passing minute.
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