I was watching 'Britain's got Talent' last evening. As usual, the contestants did their act etc....What I really enjoy about such programmes is the courage that the contestants need to summon when their performance do not meet up to the expectations of the judges or the audience. It is not easy when people tell you that for whatever reasons, you are not good enough or you have the talent but have made other mistakes which contributed to the outcome. One needs to be very calm and cool in front of the thousands of audience.

Last evening, a 14-year-old girl was praised by the judges for having the talent to sing but criticised for choosing the wrong song. With a smile on her face, she accepted the comments and in the video clip which was shown earlier, she mentioned that she had given all her best for the show. If she does not make it through, she will give herself a pat on the back and tell herself to do better next time. More importantly, she mentioned that it makes a person stronger when one learns through experience and works harder to achieve his/her goals.

It was a reminder for me. In my whole life, I have made detours. I did not take the route which most people would have taken, in the context of this place when I am currently residing. Yet, I think, somehow, deep inside, I have become stronger and more optimistic in some aspects. I have also found the courage to pursue my dreams, which others may think lowly of. I have to be strong and constantly search for ways to reach my dreams, for it is only me who makes the difference between achievement and failure.

I wonder if the kids with whom I have contact with have thought about this. In today's context (here where I am living in), where the children are either so pamapered or neglected, I wonder if they will ever think about such things in life.